Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Women's liberation revisited or women coming in to their own without falling to pressures from society?

We successfully pulled off our Girl Rising event this past Saturday, October 25, 2014.  Overall a hit with the people that attended, with a few comments such as, the movie told the "same" story over and over, too long, too far removed from the U.S..

How do we create change when the situation of 66 million girls does not have a direct impact on us?
Well, you may think that is does not have a direct impact, but it does. All the statistics show that if you improve girls lives economies all over the world would improve. Potentially the U.S. would not have to give billions of billions of dollars in aide that are never repaid.

It is not just about economics, it is about empowerment! Conciousness-raising!

Sociological empowerment often addresses members of groups that social discrimination processes have excluded from decision-making processes through - for example - discrimination based on disability, race, ethnicity, religion, or gender. Empowerment as a methodology is often associated with feminism: see consciousness-raising.
"Marginalized" refers to the overt or covert trends within societies whereby those perceived as lacking desirable traits or deviating from the group norms tend to be excluded by wider society and ostracized as undesirables.
Sometimes groups are marginalized by society at large, but governments are often unwitting or enthusiastic participants. This Act made it illegal to restrict access to schools and public places based on race. Equal opportunity laws which actively oppose such marginalization, allow increased empowerment to occur. They are also a symptom of minorities' and women's empowerment through lobbying.
Marginalized people who lack self-sufficiency become, at a minimum, dependent on charity, or welfare. They lose their self-confidence because they cannot be fully self-supporting. The opportunities denied them also deprive them of the pride of accomplishment which others, who have those opportunities, can develop for themselves. This in turn can lead to psychological, social and even mental health problems.



Economic Empowerment!

Most women across the globe rely on the informal work sector for an income.[6] If women were empowered to do more and be more, the possibility for economic growth becomes apparent. Empowering women in developing countries is essential to reduce global poverty since women represent most of the world’s poor population.[7] Eliminating a significant part of a nation’s work force on the sole basis of gender can have detrimental effects on the economy of that nation.[8] In addition, female participation in counsels, groups, and businesses is seen to increase efficiency.[9] For a general idea on how an empowered women can impact a situation monetarily, a study found that of fortune 500 companies, “those with more women board directors had significantly higher financial returns, including 53 percent higher returns on equity, 24 percent higher returns on sales and 67 percent higher returns on invested capital (OECD, 2008).”[10] This study shows the impact women can have on the overall economic benefits of a company. If implemented on a global scale, the inclusion of women in the formal workforce (like a fortune 500 company) can increase the economic output of a nation. Therefore, women can also help businesses grow and economies prosper if they have, and if they are able to use, the right knowledge and skills in their employment.


This is all pretty heavy stuff that we will have to think long and hard about things that we want to accomplish locally and globally. 
I want to start out with the female/make psyche, what do we think about our bodies and why?
Why is the human form taboo, especially here in the U.S.?
Why does the religious or society have the authority to imply what is pure or impure?
How do we overcome being ashamed of being too tall, too fat, too thin, red head, curly haired, black, white, or brown?

I will be starting this project soon, I need volunteers, all types and ages (over 18). 
This will be just one of the components to creating a dialogue on how women "desensitize" men as seeing women solely as sexual objects or breeders and recognize that we are more than a carriage. 

Stay tuned

Read this article about Aleah Chapin :-)

'What painting portraits of naked women has taught me'

Artist Aleah Chapin, 28, has caused controversy with her realistic paintings of nude older women. Now, she has a new London show that celebrates the female form at every age. Here, she opens up to Claire Cohen about body image and the perils of social media

Aleah Chapin has a new exhibition at the Flowers Gallery in London Photo: Antonio Parente 2014
Aleah Chapin has seen a lot of naked women. In the past couple of years, she’s studied wrinkles, tattoos, mastectomy scars, pubic hair, lactating breasts and sagging bosoms.
The 28-year-old American artist, who hails from an island off Seattle and now lives in Brooklyn, has been lauded for her realist, larger-than-life depictions of ‘real’ female bodies.
It started with the ‘Aunties Project’, which saw her paint a series of giant nudes, featuring a group of older women – her mother’s friends, who she “grew-up with” and has known all her life.
One won her the prestigious BP Portrait Award in 2012, the last time she was in London. It depicted a woman in her sixties, smiling with her fulsome breasts resting on her stomach.
Critic Brian Sewell called it “repellent…a grotesque medical record”.
Chapin was undeterred. She’s exhibited in the US, the Netherlands and Germany. Now, she’s back in London with a new show at the Flowers Gallery: ‘Maiden, Mother, Child and Crone’.
The paintings are in the same spirit – playful, confident, naked women – but her subjects now span the generations.
“I’m at the age where many of my friends are having children, thinking about having children, or thinking about not having children. So it’s something that’s happening now,” explains Chapin.
“And I’m nearing the age my parents were when they had me, so there’s this interesting layering of generations. I wanted to explore that in my work”.
Her paintings challenge the ageing process: how the years affect our bodies and minds, and how we’re ‘supposed’ to behave at a certain age.
So there’s a giant canvas on which a group of nine grey-haired women play an exaggerated, child-like game, crawling through each other’s legs. There are two pictures depicting a young mother. Another captures a mother and her daughter, standing companionably, side-by-side.
Chapin began painting as a child. But she only adopted the female form as a student in New York.
“I moved from the west coast to the east coast - New York with its big contemporary art world,” she explains. “I wanted to fit in. But then, I was drawn to where I came from.
“So I decided to go back to basics and explore my history and the people I grew up with - all these wacky and amazing women. The female body is an incredible thing to paint.”
(I don’t know about you, but, I’d struggle to delve into my back catalogue of family friends and emerge with a dozen women I could ask to take their clothes off).
It was the sound of their feet, 2014. Aleah Chapin
But, as well as being a personal project, Chapin’s work has also shone a light on the subject of body image.
“Most women have issues and I’m not immune to that,” says Chapin. “We’re told that our bodies are supposed to be a ‘certain height, certain size, certain weight’. But the pictures we see are completely unrealistic; they’re very Photoshopped.
“We all know it when we look at them in magazines and yet, we still compare ourselves.
“That’s why we need images that show all sorts of bodies – so we can accept every size and shape.”
This attitude is why her work resonates. We may not recognise the individuals depicted in paint, but we recognise them as people (and it’s likely why two of Britain’s leading collectors of modern art –including ‘Saatchi of the North’ Frank Cohen - have snapped up work from the new exhibition).
She also says that painting young women was a different experience to the ‘Aunties’.
“We generally care more what we look like – probably too much at times, me included,” she says.
“Young women are still trying to fit in. I think when you get older you care less –that’s not a negative thing at all. You’re just more accepting.
“When you get past a certain age you become invisible – and that’s a whole other problem.
“For me, it’s about finding beauty in every imperfection.”
Jumanji and Gwen, 2014. Aleah Chapin
Some might disagree. I talk to a middle-aged woman, intently studying Chapin’s work on the gallery walls. She’s disappointed by the subject matter.
“It’s sad that we have to go to such extremes to get attention for my generation,” she tells me. “For me, it’s just too much. I find it really hard to look at.”
Chapin’s paintings do dominate a room. Each is twice life-size and, according to Chapin, her works are getting “larger and larger”.
“You get an amazing human connection that way,” she tells me. “They are more in your personal space.”
To the outsider, it looks as though it’s Chapin who’s really been invading personal space. But she assures me that she’s never had to ‘persuade’ any of her subjects to strip-off.
“I don’t want them to go into it not wanting to,” she explains.
“I ask them to close their eyes and take a deep breath. That can really ground them in their bodies and make them feel relaxed. I also let them know that I’m completely comfortable.
“I almost don’t even see nakedness anymore; I’m so used to it.”
Exhibition at the Flowers Gallery, 2014. Aleah Chapin
She does admit that a few women went through “difficulty” when they first saw themselves depicted in paint. But nothing could have prepared them for the public reaction.
“None of us expecting that,” smiles Chapin. “That’s the hardest bit for us all – having personal pictures out there.”
It’s an issue that every modern artist must now tackle – the presence of his, or hers, subjects on the internet.
“I have to let them know that the images will be online, she says. “You see these little tiny thumbnails and they look more real when they’re smaller. It changes things for people. I’m honestly surprised that they are so comfortable with it.”
Social media has completely transformed life for young artists like Chapin – allowing them to share ideas and engage with their fans - and detractors.
“Not every one wants to see non-idealised female bodies,” she shrugs. “I try not to be affected but it’s difficult sometimes.
“People have a right to say what they want. But there’s something about the internet that gives them a platform to say anything. There’s that veil between you and that person.
“But then I’ll get an email saying how the work has influenced someone positively and it makes the struggle totally worth it.
"And I no longer feel that I’m not the only one who has body issues. I’ve learned that we all have insecurities, from people around the world who email to tell me what they’re dealing with. I don’t feel alone."
Aleah working in her studio. Photo: Facebook
Next, Chapin plans to tackle gender and admits to having male subjects lined up.
“I have asked a couple actually,” she laughs. “But men are actually less comfortable posing in the nude. I guess we see less nude men generally in culture generally, unless you look back to Greek art.
“I have a show in LA next year and I haven’t started the work yet. It’s daunting – but I have to do it.”
She also hopes – at some point – to have a family (her boyfriend, a film-maker, is in London to support her) despite what the art establishment might think.
“I think there’s an expectation that for women to ‘make it’ you only have to do your art,” she says.
““You have to be incredibly selfish and spend a lot of time in the studio. People say you have to be ‘married to your art’.
“But I also believe you can have a partner and a family. I am absolutely going to do that.”
“So I will.”
Aleah Chapin’s paintings are at the Flowers Gallery, Cork Street, London until November 8, 2014.

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Monday, October 6, 2014

Bill Maher vs Ben Affleck, Ben wins!

This is the problem when you give bigots like Bill Maher airtime. People like him are so set on their views they cannot hear anyone else try to enlighten them. Ben Affleck you win!  Thank you for trying to bring to light, your concerns on the issue at hand. Take any radicals from any religion, they do not embrace women or gays, so for Bill and his other guest to suggest that this is only an issue with Islam is so wrong. When you spew rhetoric to the many ignorant people watching, they are not going to get that this occurs in many other religions too. Tell me of one organized religion aside from Bahai that accepts everyone, on the same level playing field.  From the photos below, I would dare them to say that all of these other religions  Catholic, Orthodox Jews, Muslims, Mennonites, Mormons and many more, do  diminish the value of women. Unfortunately this is just scratching the surface of the problems worldwide and bigots such a Bill Maher having a very once sided view of the world.
This debate will continue beyond my lifetime and unfortunately I do not see a resolution to this big ugly word "Religion". This is the problem with all Fundamentalist in every religion!


Bill Maher and Ben Affleck Battle Over Radical Islam - " They ...


www.youtube.com/watch?v=XduMMteTEbc




It seems to me, if we got rid of organized religion, we would be much better off!  Believe in 
Karma, if you do wrong, wrong will be done to you. Every dog has their day, sooner or later.
Let go and let God. I am not saying you should not believe in a higher power, but what if you 
did not have  MEN interpreting the Bible, the Koran. What if WOMEN were the
ones interpreting them, would things be different? You can bet your a.. they would!





by the way, these are not Muslim women, there are Orthodox Jews.








Saturday, October 4, 2014

A Year and a life continues!

So I know I am going to get a lot of hate for this postings, BUT my intentions are good. Since I came back from Africa, it was driving me nuts that beautiful black women were wearing wigs, weaves and coloring their hair, bleaching their skin why? There is a movement all over Africa and Asia to be white, lightening and whitening creams, why? 
White women, you are not getting out of this one, Why is everyone in south Florida, the same color blonde? I know all of my fake blonde friends are fuming now! 
What are we doing to ourselves, why are we trying to become something we are not, why are we injecting ourselves with poison to make wrinkles temporarily go away. Are we doing it for ourselves, for our men, women, to "Fit In" to society? Really, Aren't we all just a bunch of fakes? Living a false Identity? I am calling all of the powerful women like ‪#‎OPRAH‬, I have been a loyal follower since her first day on the air and subscribe to her magazine. 
Oprah preaching "authentic self" what does that mean? Instead of giving to the world of false illusions. Be the best you! Exercise, eat clean, live healthy and be happy! MEN, we are not all Barbies or Playboy bunnies, get over it! I am starting a photography project, I will give date and time when I will start shooting, anyone that is Natural, come in and I will take a photo of you, stay tuned! You tell me, who is the most beautiful in these images.
What is the message that we are sending to our sons and especially our daughters? That we are not good enough? That we need to change and confirm to what society says we need to be?